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Cambodia: Temples, Truth, and the Kindest People We’ve Met

Cambodia wasn’t just another stop on our journey—it was an experience that challenged us, surprised us, and ultimately stayed with us in ways we didn’t expect.

We spent a week traveling from Siem Reap to Phnom Penh, guided by a thoughtfully curated itinerary from AboutAsia Travel that balanced iconic sites with deeply local, off-the-beaten-path moments. What followed was a journey filled with ancient wonder, cultural immersion, emotional weight, and unexpected joy.

Day 1 – Arrival in Siem Reap

We arrived in Siem Reap in the afternoon, greeted by our guide and quickly transferred to our hotel, The Aviary Hotel. After long travel days, this was exactly what we needed—a smooth landing before diving into Cambodia.

Day 2 – Temples, Monkeys & Sunset on the Water

Our first full day set the tone for everything to come.

We began early, exploring jungle-covered temples like Ta Prohm and Ta Nei—places where nature has quite literally reclaimed history. Massive tree roots twist through ancient stone, creating a setting that feels more like a movie than real life.

What makes Angkor so special isn’t just its scale—though it’s staggering. It’s the way history, spirituality, and nature exist together in perfect tension. Once the center of the Khmer Empire—the largest pre-industrial city in the world—Angkor was an incredibly advanced network of temples, reservoirs, and roadways. Today, what remains feels both ancient and alive—shaped by centuries of devotion, reclaimed by the jungle, and still deeply tied to Cambodian identity.

But what we didn’t expect?

The monkeys.

There were dozens—maybe hundreds—running wild through the temple grounds. Tiny newborns clung to their mothers, some clearly only days old. And then… they started swimming.

Not casually—full-on playing. Jumping into the water from the steps, splashing each other, chasing, stealing food from unsuspecting tourists. At one point, our guide handed a monkey a water bottle—and we watched it unscrew the cap and drink from it like a human. Moments later, it caught a grasshopper and ate it. Equal parts fascinating and chaotic.

That evening, we experienced something straight out of a dream.

As outlined in our itinerary, we ended the day on a traditional wooden boat along an ancient Angkorian waterway . While most tourists crowded temples for sunset, we had something entirely different:

Silence.
Still water.
Birdsong.

Casey had beers. I had a gin and tonic. And for a moment, Cambodia felt completely ours.

Day 3 – Floating Villages & Life on the Water

This day gave us a completely different perspective on Cambodia.We visited the floating village on Tonlé Sap Lake—one of the richest freshwater ecosystems in the world . Even though water levels were low, we learned how entire communities adapt by lifting their homes during the rainy season.We cruised through the village, visited a floating market/restaurant, and saw everything from baby crocodiles to full-grown ones (along with crocodile leather goods).In between tours, we had lunch at Chanrey Tree, which ended up being one of our favorite meals of the trip. I ordered Poh Tan Mamm Chao—incredible crispy pork belly… though I’ll admit, the pig intestine portion was not for me. Casey’s beef skewers? Perfect.

Later, we walked around North Baray, and just before sunset, wandered through a temple where the light poured through the stone doorways. Everything glowed gold. It was quiet, peaceful, and honestly one of those moments you wish you could freeze in time.

Day 4 – Sunrise at Angkor Wat & A Night We’ll Never Forget

This was the day.

We woke up at 4:00 AM. Left at 4:45. And somehow, it was worth every second.

Watching the sun rise behind Angkor Wat is one of those rare, truly once-in-a-lifetime experiences. As the sky slowly shifted and the silhouette of the temple came into view, everything just… stopped.

It’s hard to explain, but it’s something you feel more than see.

After a much-needed nap and one of the best massages I’ve had (90 minutes, four hands, $65—yes, really), the day somehow got even better.

We received a monk blessing—an incredibly peaceful, spiritual moment where we were given sai sim bracelets for protection and good fortune.

Then we stepped into real Cambodian life.

We visited a local village, helped weave a basket, tasted fresh mango and plums, made origami from palm leaves, and drank coconut milk straight from the source.

And then came the highlight of the entire trip (second only to Angkor sunrise):

Villa Chandara.

Set deep in the countryside, we were welcomed with champagne, rode through the village on an ox cart, took a cocktail-making class, and I had a foot massage as the sun set over the rice fields.

Dinner followed—private, romantic, and completely surreal.

If Angkor Wat was awe-inspiring, this was intimate. Personal. Unforgettable.

Day 5 – Phnom Penh Arrival

We flew to Phnom Penh and checked into the Baitong Hotel Phnom Penh Hotel and Resort. A slower day—haircut for me, gym for Casey, happy hour to wind down.

That evening, we watched The Killing Fields to prepare for what was ahead.

We had no idea just how heavy it would be.

Day 6 – Beauty, Brutality & A Night Out

This was the most emotionally difficult day of the trip.

We visited the Royal Palace and National Museum in the morning, but the afternoon shifted dramatically.

The Killing Fields and S-21 Genocide Museum are not easy places to visit—and they shouldn’t be.

S-21 was once a school, turned into a prison and torture center where over 17,000 people were held before being executed . The Killing Fields are mass graves from the Khmer Rouge era, where nearly 2 million people lost their lives.

We didn’t take photos. It didn’t feel right.

It’s heavy. Sobering. And deeply important.

It forces reflection—on humanity, history, and how something like this could ever happen.

Afterward, we needed a reset.

That night, we ventured out and found one of the coolest hidden gems: a speakeasy called Battbong, accessed through a Coca-Cola vending machine. (Yes, really.)

After getting lost down a few questionable alleys—thankfully redirected by some local kids—we made it inside and enjoyed cocktails and live music.

Dinner followed at Garage Sale, where we ordered unapologetically American food: chicken tenders (massive), loaded tots, and a smash burger. The “tendies” alone were worth it.

But the real highlight?

Talking with our waitress.

We learned about daily life in Cambodia—cost of living, long work hours, the intense heat, and how drastically things change during the rainy season. And like everyone we met, she was excited about the New Year.

Day 7 – Khmer New Year & A Perfect Ending

Today marks the beginning of Khmer New Year, one of the most important holidays in Cambodia, celebrated from April 14–16 .

It’s a time for family, tradition, and renewal. Many people travel back to their hometowns, businesses close, and the entire country shifts into celebration mode.

And us?

We’re sitting poolside, sipping Baitong spritzes, eating fresh spring rolls, and reflecting on everything we’ve experienced.

Later today, we’ll visit the legendary Raffles Hotel for Afternoon Tea and cocktails at the Elephant Bar—an iconic colonial-era property known for hosting royalty, writers, and dignitaries for nearly a century.

Tomorrow, we head to Singapore.

Final Thoughts – Cambodia Will Surprise You

There are a lot of misconceptions about Cambodia.

But here’s the truth:

It’s safe.
The food is incredible.
And the people? Some of the kindest we’ve encountered anywhere in the world.

Yes, it’s a country that has endured unimaginable hardship.

But what you’ll find is a place rich in culture, resilience, and an appreciation for life, family, and connection that’s hard to put into words.

If you’re even considering it—go.

Cambodia isn’t just a destination.

It’s an experience that stays with you.

Vietnam, Elevated: A Birthday in Da Nang & A Reckoning in Ho Chi Minh City

Vietnam gave us two completely different experiences—one worth celebrating, the other impossible to forget.

Da Nang: A Birthday Worth Crossing the World For

We arrived in Da Nang after a short drive from Hoi An, and I wasn’t expecting much from the journey itself—but wow, I was wrong.

The drive hugged the coastline in a way that immediately reminded me of Miami. Sleek buildings, beach clubs, endless stretches of sand, and a kind of effortless beauty everywhere you look. It felt modern, vibrant, and just a little bit glamorous.

Our Stay: InterContinental Da Nang Sun Peninsula Resort

We checked into the stunning InterContinental Da Nang Sun Peninsula Resort, and honestly, this place is in a league of its own.

Perched dramatically on the Son Tra Peninsula, the resort cascades down the mountainside toward the sea. It’s divided into four levels—Heaven, Sky, Earth, and Sea—connected by a charming tram system that becomes part of the experience itself.

Our panoramic room delivered exactly what you’d hope for: sweeping ocean views, lush jungle surroundings, and that feeling of being completely removed from the outside world.

And then… the wildlife.

Seeing the rare red-shanked douc langurs in their natural habitat was surreal. They almost don’t look real—bright, almost painted-looking creatures moving gracefully through the trees. It was one of those “this is why we travel” moments.

Day one was simple: explore, unwind, and take it all in.


Casey’s Birthday: A Day I’ll Never Top

Day two was Casey’s 41st birthday—and I had a plan.

I booked a private experience (led by our now-legendary guide Andy), and before the tour even properly began, he pulled over at a scenic overlook… and surprised Casey with a birthday cake.

From a local bakery. On a mountaintop. In Vietnam.

Andy wasn’t just a guide—he was part photographer, part storyteller, and part magician. By the end of the day, he had captured everything in a beautifully edited video and photo set that we’ll keep forever.

Our tour included:

  • A visit to the See Linh Ung Pagoda and Lady Buddha
  • Hike up Marble Mountain
  • Visit to a (family owned) marble sculpting facility
  • A scenic drive around Monkey Mountain
  • A stop for local coffee (salted coffee and coconut coffee are new favs)

After the tour: a well-earned nap… then we got ready for what might be one of the best meals of our lives.


Dinner at La Maison 1888

Dinner was at La Maison 1888, the resort’s Michelin-starred French restaurant—and it delivered at a level that’s hard to put into words.

We opted for the Epicurean tasting menu with wine pairing.

Eight courses turned into… more than eight. The chef added canapés and an extra appetizer, and by the end, it felt like a full culinary journey rather than just a meal.

Every dish was precise, creative, and beautifully plated—but still approachable. No pretension, just excellence.

They even surprised Casey with a personalized dessert, which was such a thoughtful touch.

After dinner, we toured the wine cellar—home to what’s rumored to be the most expensive bottle of wine in Vietnam (valued at over $100,000 USD).

Yes… I tried to take it off the shelf.

And yes… Casey was not thrilled.

(I only pulled it out halfway. We’re still married.)


Ba Na Hills: Vietnam’s Most Surreal Playground

On our final full day, we headed to Ba Na Hills.

The best comparison I can give? Imagine Epcot… but more visually stunning and slightly less focused on rides.

The cable car alone—one of the longest in the world—is reason enough to visit. Soaring above mountains and jungle, the views feel almost surreal.

Pro tip: Go early during the summer, and bring a light jacket in cooler months—the temperature can change dramatically between the base and the summit.

We also hit the alpine coasters (all three of them).
And yes… I lost another hat.

That makes two this trip. One in Thailand, one here. At this point, it’s becoming a pattern.

After four incredible days—and what I hope was a truly unforgettable birthday—we packed up and headed south.

And then… everything shifted.


Ho Chi Minh City: Energy, History, and Heavy Truths

We arrived in Ho Chi Minh City and checked into Landmark 81, the tallest building in Vietnam.

Our first night was spent in the club lounge on the 71st floor—cocktails in hand, watching the city stretch endlessly in every direction. It’s a skyline that feels alive.

The Cu Chi Tunnels: A Sobering Experience

The next morning began with an early boat ride along the Saigon River to the Cu Chi Tunnels with Les Rives. 

(Pro tip: Book the first tour of the day (around 7am)—Vietnam heats up quickly, and the tunnels only get more crowded as the day goes on).

Nothing prepares you for this.

What looks like peaceful countryside today was once the site of intense conflict, ingenuity, and survival. The tunnels themselves are a testament to the resilience and resourcefulness of the Vietnamese people.

We saw hidden entrances, recreated traps, and bomb craters. And in the background, the sound of gunfire from a nearby shooting range made everything feel even more real.

At one point, I had to sit down and just… process.

It’s overwhelming. It’s chilling. And it’s important.

You can feel the weight of history there—and regardless of where you’re from, it forces reflection.

XO Tours: Chaos, Culture, and the Best Night in the City

That evening, we did the XO Foodie Tour with XO Tours—and this was hands down one of the most fun experiences we’ve had in Vietnam.

We each hopped on the back of a motorbike and plunged straight into the chaos of Ho Chi Minh traffic.

And weirdly? Within two minutes, it felt safer than watching it from inside a car.

The night unfolded as a whirlwind of incredible food, vibrant neighborhoods, and nonstop energy. Our guides were amazing—fun, knowledgeable, and genuinely kind.

This was the kind of experience we chase when we travel: authentic, immersive, and unforgettable.

We got back to the hotel around 10:30pm, exhausted—but completely buzzing from the experience.

War Remnants Museum: A Reality Check

Our final day brought us to the War Remnants Museum.

This was… different.

Where Cu Chi was immersive, this was confrontational.

Graphic imagery, firsthand accounts, and the undeniable human cost of war are laid out in a way that’s impossible to ignore.

I’m still processing it—and I probably will be for a long time.

What I felt most was sadness—and anger. Not in a political sense, but in a human one. The scale of suffering is hard to comprehend, and it forces you to confront uncomfortable truths about history, accountability, and what war really means.

It’s not an easy visit. But it’s an important one.

I chose not to take any photos inside the museum—it didn’t feel appropriate. The images below were taken just outside.

Closing Thoughts: Why This Part of the Journey Matters

Now, as I write this, we’re back on the 71st floor of Landmark 81—cocktails in hand (again), the city glowing below us.

Tomorrow, we head to Cambodia.

And I’ve already been warned: it’s going to get even heavier.

But that’s part of this journey.

Not just the beaches, the luxury resorts, and the unforgettable meals—but the moments that challenge you, shift your perspective, and stay with you long after you leave.

Because those are the moments that don’t just stay with you—they change you.

Bangkok to Ha Long Bay: Chaos, Countryside & One of the Most Magical Places on Earth

After weeks of island hopping through southern Thailand, we returned to Bangkok for one final chapter before heading into Vietnam.

We didn’t expect this stretch to hit the way it did.

But somewhere between ancient temples, chaotic streets, quiet rice fields, and limestone giants rising from the sea… this became one of the most meaningful parts of our journey so far.

🇹🇭 Bangkok: A Cathartic Return

Our final week in Thailand felt different — slower, more reflective… and honestly, a little emotional knowing we’d soon be leaving.

We spent time exploring two of Bangkok’s most unique cultural landmarks:

The Erawan Museum

Home to the iconic three-headed elephant statue, this museum is as symbolic as it is surreal. Inside, the structure represents different layers of the universe in Thai cosmology — from the underworld to the heavens. The stained glass ceiling alone is worth the visit.

Ancient City (Muang Boran)

Imagine all of Thailand’s most important architectural landmarks — temples, palaces, monuments — recreated in one massive open-air park. It’s part museum, part cultural immersion, and one of the most underrated experiences in Bangkok.

We also spent time in Lumpini Park, where we spotted massive monitor lizards casually roaming the grounds — a reminder that Bangkok always keeps you on your toes.

In between sightseeing:

  • We had dental work done (shockingly affordable — even compared to U.S. insurance costs)
  • Visited a Starbucks Reserve for what might have been one of the best espresso martinis I’ve ever had
  • Took in the Calypso Cabaret show — polished, vibrant, and incredibly well-executed
  • Ended one night at Tichuca Rooftop Bar, overlooking the glowing Bangkok skyline

By the end of the week, we weren’t quite ready to leave.

But Vietnam was calling.

🇻🇳 Hanoi: Organized Chaos & Unexpected Charm

Hanoi doesn’t ease you in — it hits you all at once.

Scooters. Horns. Movement. Energy.

Crossing the street feels like a leap of faith.

And yet, somehow, it works.

We dove in immediately:

  • Lunch at Essence — authentic, flavorful, unforgettable
  • Wandering the Old Quarter
  • Beers on “Beer Street”
  • Dinner on plastic stools just inches off the ground — simple, local, and delicious
  • Cocktails at The Hidden Pub… which truly lives up to its name (we walked past it twice)

On our second day, we took a city tour that brought Hanoi’s history into focus:

Highlights:

  • Hanoi Opera House – French colonial elegance at its finest
  • St. Joseph’s Cathedral – Gothic architecture reminiscent of Notre Dame
  • Ho Chi Minh Mausoleum & Presidential Palace – deeply symbolic and politically significant
  • Hoa Lo Prison (“Hanoi Hilton”) – sobering and powerful
  • Temple of Literature – Vietnam’s first university, serene and historic
  • Imperial Citadel & Military History Museum – layered with centuries of conflict and resilience

We also passed the lake where John McCain was shot down — one of many moments where history felt very present.

And then there’s the architecture…

A blend of:

  • French colonial facades
  • Narrow “tube houses” built for tax efficiency
  • Weathered textures layered over time

It’s chaotic, yes — but also incredibly alive.

🚲 Ninh Binh: The Most Authentic Experience Yet

After Hanoi, we traded chaos for calm.

Ninh Binh felt like stepping into another world.

We stayed at a local homestay and spent two days immersed in village life.

The 25km Bike Ride

This was, without question, one of the most authentic experiences we’ve had anywhere.

We rode through:

  • Rice fields
  • Small villages
  • Cemeteries
  • Local farms

We watched rice being processed for animal feed and rice wine, learned about invasive snails threatening crops, and noticed something powerful:

Most of the farmers were women.

Strong. Capable. Carrying 50+ lb bags of rice with ease.

Our guide joked that the men were often home “drinking and coming up with their next big idea.”

And the kids…

Nearly every child waved and said hello as we passed. We were told foreigners rarely come through these villages like this — and their excitement was genuine, contagious, and unforgettable.


Mua Cave (Hang Múa)

500 steep steps.

One of the toughest climbs I’ve done.

And absolutely worth it.

At the top, sweeping views of limestone peaks and winding rivers — the kind of landscape that doesn’t feel real.

Also worth noting:
About halfway up, a goat attempted to steal snacks from a child. No injuries. Plenty of laughter.


Hoa Lu & Trang An

  • Hoa Lu – Vietnam’s ancient capital, rich with history
  • Trang An – a 3-hour boat ride through caves, rivers, and towering limestone cliffs

It felt peaceful. Cinematic. Almost sacred.


Bai Dinh Pagoda & The Floating Lantern Incident

That night, we visited Bai Dinh Pagoda — massive, serene, and beautifully lit.

To close the evening, we participated in a floating lantern ritual.

One small problem…

The couple we were with fell into the water while placing theirs.

It was alarming for about two seconds — and then hilarious.

They were incredible sports and insisted we document it.

Moments like that? You can’t plan them.

🚢 Ha Long Bay: A World Wonder That Lives Up to the Hype

We arrived in Ha Long Bay and stayed one night in a high-rise Airbnb overlooking the water — a preview of what was to come.

The next day, we boarded the Heritage Line Ginger for a 3-day, 2-night cruise.

Only 6 cabins. Just 11 guests total.

Intimate. Elevated. Perfect.

Highlights:

  • Kayaking through secluded parts of the bay
  • Visiting a floating village and pearl farm
  • Exploring caves
  • Hiking Ti Top Island for panoramic views
  • Onboard cooking demonstrations
  • Some of the best food we’ve had in Southeast Asia

Ha Long Bay is… hard to describe.

It’s one of those places that actually lives up to the hype.

For us, it sits alongside:

  • Iceland
  • The Galápagos
  • Norway

As one of the most breathtaking places we’ve ever seen.

🧵 Back to Hanoi: Tailors & Final Touches

Before leaving Vietnam’s north, we returned briefly to Hanoi to pick up custom pieces:

  • Tailored clothing from Tailor Bros
  • A custom silk robe (for me) from Hadong Silk

The process — selecting fabrics, being fitted, watching it come to life — added another layer to the experience.

🌿 Hoi An (Now) & What’s Next

Now we’re in Hoi An for a short stay.

So far:

  • A beautiful stroll through Old Town
  • An incredible dinner (dumplings, noodle salad, fried rice)
  • Pool time, massages, rooftop drinks

And today, we head to Da Nang to celebrate Casey’s birthday.

The Plan… (Sort Of)

Next up:

  • Da Nang
  • Ho Chi Minh City
  • Cambodia (6-day tour)

After that? Plans are shifting.

We woke up to a canceled flight to Singapore — so now we’re reworking everything.

Maybe Bali.
Definitely Japan.
Ending in South Korea before heading home.

Final Thought

This chapter wasn’t just about where we went.

It was about contrast:

  • Chaos and calm
  • Cities and countryside
  • Planned moments and completely unexpected ones

And somewhere along the way, it reminded us why we chose this life.

We’re taking it day by day now.

And honestly?

That’s exactly how it should be.

Phuket to Koh Samui: Fire Shows, Floating Caves & A Birthday I’ll Never Forget

From the misty mountains of Chiang Mai to the glittering sands of Thailand’s southern islands, this leg of our journey took us through sun-bleached beaches, limestone jungles, dancing fire, and one unforgettable birthday celebration.

We left the mountains of Chiang Mai behind and flew south, trading temples and cooler air for turquoise water, longboats, and island heat.

This stretch of Thailand felt different. Slower. Softer. Saltier.

And somewhere between a private rum vault dinner and a beachside fire show, it became one of the most memorable chapters of this journey so far.

🌴 Phuket: Lanai Living & Limestone Giants

Monkey with baby

We checked into Le Méridien Phuket Beach Resort, and quickly exhaled.

Our room opened to a lanai that stepped directly into a shared pool — just six units on our level had access. Morning coffee became a ritual: open the doors, step into warm water, float under palm trees before breakfast.

The property is oceanfront, the service seamless, the food consistently excellent. We spent hours simply existing — swimming, sipping, resting.

But one day we ventured out to explore the legendary Phang Nga Bay.

Phang Nga Bay Tour Highlights:

  • James Bond Island — dramatic, vertical limestone rising from electric turquoise water.
  • Walking through a cave that opened into a hidden lagoon.
  • Limestone rock formations that look sculpted by mythology.
  • A beach stop where two monkeys carried their babies (adorable… but aggressively protective around food).
  • A swing over the water where we took turns pretending we were 10 again.
  • Lunch: curry, spring rolls, wok-fried vegetables — shockingly good for a tour stop.

One evening we went to Central Phuket Mall, shopped, and I picked up a new dark green bag — a color exclusive to Phuket. Souvenir? Yes. Regret? None.

⛴ Phi Phi: No Roads, Just Sand & Salt Air

We ferried to Phi Phi and quickly learned something important:

There are no roads to our hotel.

From the pier, we walked about a quarter mile — mostly across sand — while tractors transported luggage. It felt like we’d entered a different era of travel.

We stayed at Phi Phi Natural Resort in a Mountain View room — rustic, relaxed, perfectly island-coded.

Private Longboat Tour Stops:

  • Maya Bay — stunning but crowded.
  • Pileh Lagoon — surreal turquoise.
  • Monkey Bay.
  • Bamboo Beach — equally gorgeous, equally busy.
  • Snorkeling in impossibly clear water.

One morning we walked nearly two miles to the closest general store. The exercise? Needed. The sweating? Biblical. The humidity felt like a warm embrace — one I didn’t ask for — as we made our pilgrimage to the tiny general store. But arriving sweaty and smiling, drink in hand, is exactly how these memory-stitched moments are meant to feel.

On our final night, there was a beach fire show at the hotel. We didn’t secure the best seats, but I was hypnotized. I told myself: we’ll find another show — and we’ll do it right next time.

🚤 Krabi: Fire, Sunset & Food Poisoning

We speed-boated to Krabi and checked into Anana Ecological Resort Krabi.

Our first night, we did it properly.

VIP seating at Bamboo Beach Club Krabi for the Ao Nang Fire Show.

We arrived at 5:30 pm for an 8:00 pm show. Drinks. Dinner. Dessert. Sunset melting into the Andaman Sea. I filmed time lapses of the fire spinning — capturing that hypnotic swirl of flame against night sky.

It was spectacular.

And then… I got food poisoning.

Two days mostly horizontal. We had to forfeit a kayaking tour. Humbling reminder that even in paradise, your stomach can humble you quickly.

🎂 Koh Samui: The Birthday That Broke My Top Three

We arrived at Four Seasons Resort Koh Samui on March 7 — my birthday gift from Casey.

March 8 was my birthday.

This property is easily top three hotels I’ve ever stayed at.

Casey worked with the staff to orchestrate the perfect day:

  • Breakfast on our veranda.
  • A rose-shaped mini birthday cake.
  • A half-day spa package (body scrub, four-hand massage, milk bath).
  • Private dinner inside their rum room, “The Vault,” with a local Thai musician playing traditional music.
  • Dessert moved to a private beach table when the weather cleared.
  • Custom napkins embroidered with a monkey and our initials.

They filmed parts of The White Lotus here — and yes, it feels exactly that cinematic.

Three nights of pure magic. Naturally, I had to share more pictures…

🌊 Renaissance Koh Samui: Upgrades, Plunge Pools & Purple Roses

We moved to Renaissance Koh Samui Resort & Spa for five nights.

Because of our status, we were upgraded to an oceanfront villa with a private plunge pool.

They insisted on celebrating my birthday again — arranging a private dinner on the beach with flowers coordinated with Casey. I received a bold purple bouquet filled with roses and Thai florals. It was one of the most beautiful arrangements I’ve ever been given.

We opted for an all-inclusive package, so we’ve stayed mostly on-site, fully leaning into beach life. Yesterday there was a 50% spa promotion — I treated myself to a facial and a 90-minute massage.

Bliss.

As I write this, I’m sitting beachside at the bar. The ocean is calm. The next chapter — Vietnam and Cambodia — looms busy and immersive.

But right now?

I’m exactly where I’m supposed to be.

What This Chapter Taught Me

Island life isn’t just about turquoise water.

It’s about:

  • Letting yourself be a kid on a swing.
  • Accepting that sometimes you’ll lose two days to food poisoning.
  • Celebrating love that’s lasted 18+ years.
  • Saying yes to spa days.
  • Choosing the purple bouquet.
  • Taking the upgrade.
  • Sitting still long enough to write about it.

We head back to Bangkok this weekend. Then Vietnam. Then Cambodia.

The pace is about to shift.

But this stretch — Phuket to Koh Samui — will stay with me.

Have you island-hopped in Thailand? What was your favorite stop? Drop a comment — we’d love to hear your stories!

Artistic Temples, Bat Caves & Rescue Elephants: Our Northern Thailand Journey

From Chiang Rai’s surreal art temples to Pai’s misty caves and an overnight at Elephant Nature Park.

chiang-rai-white-temple

Northern Thailand has a different rhythm.

It’s quieter than Bangkok. Slower than Chiang Mai. A little weirder. A little more spiritual. A little more wild.

And for us? It was one of the most memorable stretches of our time in Thailand.

Chiang Rai: A 10-Hour Private Adventure

We hired a private driver for 10 hours and built a custom itinerary around what speaks to us most: architecture, symbolism, nature, and bold artistic expression.

We skipped the Golden Triangle and the long neck village. Instead, we built our own narrative. What unfolded felt less like sightseeing — and more like moving through an art installation in three acts.

Act I: Light

Wat Rong Khun

Nothing prepares you for the White Temple.

It isn’t ancient. It isn’t subtle. It doesn’t blend into the landscape.

It shines.

Brilliant white plaster embedded with mirrored glass reflects the sun so intensely it almost feels celestial. Crossing the bridge — with sculpted hands reaching upward beneath you — is dramatic and symbolic. It represents rebirth, the crossing from desire to enlightenment.

It is theatrical in the best way.

This was our favorite stop of the day. Ethereal. Surreal. Almost otherworldly.

Interlude: Nature & Play

Before descending into darker tones, we made space for movement.

🌊 Khun Korn Waterfall Trail

Not originally on our itinerary — but we’re so glad we added it.

The hike to Khun Korn Waterfall takes you through lush forest and ends at one of the tallest waterfalls in the province. 

Singha Park 🐾

At Singha Park, rolling hills and tea fields stretched endlessly. We fed zebras, goats, rabbits — a surreal Northern Thailand safari moment we didn’t see coming.

A perfect balance to temple hopping!

Act II: Shadow

Baan Dam Museum

If the White Temple represents light, the Black House explores something deeper.

Dark teak buildings. Animal bones. Skulls. Stark wood architecture filled with symbolism and intensity.

It’s provocative and moody without feeling gimmicky. The late artist behind this complex leaned into mortality, power, shadow — themes that felt surprisingly aligned with our darker aesthetic.

You don’t simply observe it.

You sit with it.

Ascent: Scale & Stillness

Wat Huay Pla Kang

After the intensity of the Black House, we shifted into something grander.

Wat Huay Pla Kang is scale.

A towering nine-story pagoda. A massive white Guan Yin statue visible from miles away. Wide staircases, ornate details, sweeping views.

We climbed all nine floors of the pagoda — and then went inside the Guan Yin statue and climbed again.

From the top, Chiang Rai stretches in every direction — green, quiet, peaceful. It felt expansive after a day of hyper-detailed art and symbolism.

If the Black House makes you reflect inward, this place pulls your gaze outward.

It was a physical reset before our final act.

Act III: Color

Wat Rong Suea Ten

We ended the day at the Blue Temple.

And it was the perfect finale.

Deep sapphire walls. Electric cobalt ceilings. Gold accents glowing against blue so saturated it feels almost unreal. The massive white Buddha inside seems suspended in a sea of color.

After 10 hours of temples, hiking, waterfalls, and farm animals, stepping into this vivid sanctuary felt cinematic.

White.
Black.
Scale.
Blue.

Chiang Rai isn’t just a collection of temples — it’s layered expression.

Light. Shadow. Elevation. Saturation.

And ending in that bold wash of color felt like closing the final chapter before heading back into the city for Mediterranean comfort food and the clock tower light show.

Pai: Tiny Farmhouse & Big Energy

The next morning we embarked on a 6.5-hour drive to Pai.

Pai feels like a fever dream created by backpackers and artists.

We stayed at a tiny farmhouse on a working farm (Luxury Farm House / Farm House Boutique). It was simple, quiet, and surrounded by nature — a total shift from city energy.

The village vibe? Bohemian. Relaxed. Slightly chaotic in a charming way.

Sunrise at Jabo & Nam Lod Cave

One morning we did a private sunrise tour to Jabo Viewpoint and Nam Lod Cave.

The sunrise over the misty mountains was magical. One of those quiet, cinematic moments where everything feels still.

And then…

Nam Lod Cave

I knew there would be bats.

What I did not expect was thousands of bats swarming in and out of the cave — and bat droppings literally falling from the sky.

There is something uniquely humbling about realizing you are standing beneath a living, swirling cloud of bats while tiny projectiles rain down around you.

Memorable? Absolutely.
Romantic? Debatable.

But the cave itself is stunning — enormous chambers, stalactites, bamboo raft rides through the darkness. It felt adventurous in the best way.

Elephant Nature Park: The Emotional One

Elephant Nature Park

After Pai, we returned to Chiang Mai for our overnight stay at Elephant Nature Park.

This was important to us. Ethical interaction. No riding. No performances. Just rescue, rehabilitation, and education.

Spending the night allowed us to see the elephants in a more relaxed way — feeding them, walking beside them, observing their personalities.

The morning after, I wasn’t feeling great. Casey went to the morning activities without me — which, in hindsight, was probably for the best. One portion included visiting the area where they care for injured or disabled dogs.

Anyone who knows me knows that would have emotionally wrecked me.

I’m grateful this place exists. It’s not polished or glamorous — it’s real. And it’s doing meaningful work.

And Now… The Islands

After one final night in Chiang Mai, we flew to Phuket — where we are now.

The mountains have given way to turquoise water.

We’ll be island hopping until late March, and I have a feeling this next chapter is going to look very different from Northern Thailand.

White sand instead of white temples.
Boat decks instead of bat caves.
Sunsets over the Andaman instead of pagoda stair climbs.

Island adventures coming soon.

— Brandon ✈️🌴

Two Weeks in Thailand: Temples, Night Markets, Rooftops & the Romance of Slow Travel

Our journey from Cairo to Bangkok was long — the kind of travel day that blurs time zones, meal schedules, and basic awareness of what day it is. By the time we arrived in Thailand’s electric capital, exhaustion had firmly taken hold. We crawled into bed for a few hours, surrendering completely to jet lag.

That first night was intentionally simple.

A short walk led us to a Mexican restaurant — our first taste of this cuisine in over a month — followed by a relaxed stroll around our neighborhood and, of course, an obligatory stop at 7-Eleven, Thailand’s unofficial community hub. Snacks secured, curiosity satisfied.

Our hour-long drive from the airport made an immediate impression: Bangkok felt clean, vibrant, and surprisingly calm despite the heavy congestion. Unlike Cairo, there were no symphonies of car horns — just a steady, organized hum of city life.

It was clear from the start: Thailand was going to feel different.

And it did.

Settling In (and Slowing Down)

Both of us were feeling a bit crummy — likely allergies after weeks of desert air and pollution — so Day 2 became a guilt-free recovery day. Travel has taught us that listening to your body is never wasted time.

That evening, Casey discovered a theater so highly reviewed we couldn’t resist investigating.

VIP Movie Night in Bangkok

Paragon Cineplex

Located inside the ultra-luxury Siam Paragon mall, Paragon Cineplex is less a movie theater and more a full sensory experience.

We booked two VIP tickets and settled into fully reclined seats complete with blankets and pillows — a level of comfort that made American theaters feel almost primitive by comparison.

Dinner afterward was at a local pub where we enjoyed excellent Thai food… though sadly, I took zero photos and cannot remember what we ordered. A rare failure on my part — but trust me, it was delicious.

Walking back to our Airbnb, the city pulsed around us: skyscrapers glowing overhead, street vendors steaming with activity, bars spilling laughter onto sidewalks.

After Cairo and Nairobi, Bangkok felt almost cinematic.

Magical, even.

Cocktails in the Clouds

On Day 3, we ventured to one of Bangkok’s most stylish rooftop bars.

The Speakeasy Rooftop Bar Bangkok.

Perched atop Hotel Muse on the 24th and 25th floors, The Speakeasy channels the glamour of the Roaring Twenties — think dark woods, leather seating, jazz-era elegance, and cocktails presented like works of art.

We sipped beautifully crafted drinks while watching the sun melt into Bangkok’s skyline.

And yes — another 7-Eleven stop followed.

(Pro tip: if you know, you know… Thailand’s herbal inhalers are lifesavers.)

Bangkok’s Spiritual Heart

Day 4 was our first true exploration day — and Bangkok delivered.

The Grand Palace & Wat Phra Kaew

Grand Palace Bangkok
Wat Phra Kaew

Built in 1782, the Grand Palace served as the royal residence for over 150 years and remains Thailand’s most revered landmark.

Inside the complex sits Wat Phra Kaew, home to the Emerald Buddha — carved from a single block of jade and considered the spiritual protector of Thailand. No pictures allowed!

The level of detail is staggering: gold leaf, mirrored mosaics, hand-painted murals.

Every surface tells a story.

Wat Arun — The Temple of Dawn

Rising dramatically from the Chao Phraya River, Wat Arun is decorated with millions of pieces of porcelain that shimmer in the sunlight.

Despite its nickname, many argue it’s actually most beautiful at sunset — when the temple glows softly against the darkening sky.

After temple hopping, we enjoyed lunch overlooking the water. The standout? Mango sticky rice — sweet, creamy, and deeply comforting.

Thailand had officially won me over.

Retail Therapy, Thai Style

ICONSIAM

Bangkok doesn’t do malls halfway — and ICONSIAM may be the most spectacular shopping complex we’ve ever visited.

Highlights included:

  • A massive indoor floating market
  • A surprisingly famous (and enormous) dachshund statue
  • The terrace outside the Apple Store overlooking the river
  • A multi-story indoor waterfall

It was theatrical, over the top… and we loved every minute.

Designer Breakfast & Sky-High Dining

Day 5 began with breakfast at the café inside the Dior flagship store — visually stunning, impeccably styled, and delicious.

Even the bathroom was unforgettable.

(Yes, I regret not photographing it. No, I still wouldn’t.)

That evening brought us to one of Bangkok’s iconic rooftop restaurants:

Vertigo at Banyan Tree Bangkok

Located on the 61st floor of Banyan Tree Hotel, Vertigo offers a dining experience that feels suspended in the sky.

The food? Forgettable.

The view? Absolutely unforgettable.

Up there, Bangkok felt oddly peaceful — quiet yet unmistakably alive.

Fight Night in Bangkok

For Day 6, we leaned fully into Thai culture with VIP seats at Rajadamnern Stadium, Thailand’s oldest Muay Thai arena.

Open since 1945, Rajadamnern is sacred ground for Muay Thai — often called “The Art of Eight Limbs.”

Elbows. Knees. Shins. Fists.

It is as strategic as it is brutal.

Nearly every bout ended in a first-round knockout, and the energy inside the stadium was electric.

Afterward, we headed to Bangkok’s most infamous nightlife strip:

Khao San Road

Khao San Road is sensory overload in the best possible way — street food sizzling, bass thumping from open-air clubs, massage offers every few steps, performers, travelers, drag queens, and yes… Thailand’s famous ladyboys dazzling passersby.

Chaotic.

Global.

Unapologetically alive.

The Romance of the Rails

Day 7 brought a new adventure: an overnight train to Chiang Mai aboard Train #13.

Was it luxurious? Not exactly.

Old. Cold. Tight quarters.

But there is something undeniably romantic about falling asleep on a train and waking up in a completely new landscape.

I’d do it again — though next time, perhaps on a newer carriage.

Chiang Mai: A Softer Rhythm

We arrived exhausted and immediately took a long nap — a travel ritual we’ve come to respect.

That evening, we wandered through a night market where I devoured one of the best Pad Thai meals of my life for 70 baht (about $3 USD).

Thailand continues to humble me with its value.

Later, we discovered one of Chiang Mai’s most entertaining nightlife gems:

Ram Bar Chiang Mai

We planned for one show.

Stayed for two.

The costumes were spectacular, choreography sharp, and the performers magnetic. Unlike many American drag shows, these artists performed alongside full backup dancers — making the entire production feel theatrical and elevated.

It was pure joy.

Living Like Locals

The next few days were intentionally unscheduled — wandering streets, sampling street food, visiting 7-Eleven more times than I care to admit, and indulging in $12/hr massages that made resistance futile.

Slow travel is becoming our favorite travel style.

Into the Mountains

One unforgettable day took us to Doi Inthanon National Park, Thailand’s highest peak.

High atop Doi Inthanon sit the twin pagodas built in honor of Thailand’s King and Queen — a tribute not only to the monarchy but to the deep reverence Thai culture holds for tradition and harmony. Surrounded by vibrant gardens and sweeping mountain views, the setting feels almost otherworldly. Cool air, drifting clouds, and total stillness made this one of the most unexpectedly serene moments of our time in northern Thailand.

Other highlights included:

  • Wachirathan Waterfall: thunderous, misty, and hypnotic
  • Kew Mae Pan Trail: sweeping mountain views above a sea of clouds
  • Visits to local villages where artisans crafted textiles by hand
  • A traditional Thai lunch bursting with fresh vegetables and warming soups

I purchased a handwoven throw blanket for about $10 — one of my favorite souvenirs so far.

We also sampled strawberries so sweet they barely tasted real… and a homemade lychee “vodka” that leaned far closer to moonshine.

No regrets.

Waterfalls & Baby Goats

Another tour led us to two natural wonders:

Bua Thong Sticky Waterfalls

Thanks to mineral-rich limestone, the Sticky Waterfalls allow you to climb directly up rushing water without slipping — like nature’s staircase.

Angel Waterfall Chiang Mai

At Angel Waterfall Park, however, the true stars were the animals.

Baby goats everywhere.

My heart barely survived.

Even better, we met a wonderful family from Zurich who mapped out Switzerland recommendations for us this summer — a reminder that travel is as much about people as it is places.

A Slightly Shameful Dinner

After several busy days, we ordered in.

Yes… McDonald’s.

It tasted mostly the same — comforting, nostalgic, and exactly what we needed in that moment.

The craving has now been officially retired.

Onward to Chiang Rai

Yesterday, we drove north to Chiang Rai and checked into our hotel for a three-night stay. Valentine’s dinner was spent along the water, enjoying Italian cuisine paired with local beer and cocktails.

As I write this, Casey is at the gym and we’re preparing to explore the city before tomorrow’s 10-hour private tour of Chiang Rai’s highlights.

Next stop after that?

Pai.

And somehow, it still feels like we’re just getting started.

Thailand continues to surprise us — balancing chaos with serenity, tradition with modernity, and adventure with deep, restorative calm.

We have so much left to see.

And I cannot wait to share it with you.

From Safari to the Sands of Time: Our Journey Through Egypt 🇪🇬

After days spent tracking wildlife across the plains of Kenya, we traded savannas for stone, history, and the timeless rhythm of the Nile. Egypt had been a long-anticipated stop on our journey, and from the moment we arrived, it delivered on every level—ancient, chaotic, beautiful, and unforgettable.

Day 1: Arrival in Cairo

We landed in Cairo very early in the morning, running on adrenaline, jet lag, and the afterglow of our safari adventure. After checking in and settling at Le Méridien Cairo, we made the conscious decision to keep this first day intentionally slow. Egypt is intense—in the best way—and after weeks of constant movement, we allowed ourselves time to rest, reset, and ease into a completely different world.

Sometimes the best travel decision is knowing when not to do too much.

Day 2: Into the White & Black Desert

We booked a private driver and headed west toward one of Egypt’s most surreal landscapes: the White Desert and Black Desert, with a stop at Crystal Mountain along the way. The drive was long—about five hours each way—but absolutely worth it.

Before reaching the deserts, we were welcomed by local townspeople and treated to an authentic Egyptian lunch. It was warm, generous, and deeply human—one of those moments that reminds you travel isn’t just about landmarks, but about people.

The Black Desert

The Black Desert gets its name from the dark volcanic stones scattered across rolling hills. These blackened rocks are remnants of ancient volcanic activity, giving the landscape a dramatic, almost lunar appearance. It feels stark and powerful—a reminder of Egypt’s geological history long before pharaohs and pyramids.

Crystal Mountain

Crystal Mountain is a small ridge embedded with sparkling quartz crystals that catch the sunlight and shimmer against the desert backdrop. It’s a brief stop, but a fascinating one—proof that Egypt’s beauty extends far beyond temples and tombs.

The White Desert

The White Desert couldn’t be more different. This area is famous for its chalk-white limestone formations, sculpted over thousands of years by wind and sand. The formations resemble mushrooms, animals, and abstract art pieces—nature’s own open-air gallery. Against the pale sand and endless sky, the landscape feels otherworldly and quiet in a way that’s hard to describe.

After a full day of desert exploration, we made the return drive to Cairo (thankfully a bit shorter on the way back), tired, dusty, and completely in awe.

Days 3 & 4: A Luxurious Pause at the St. Regis Cairo

For the next two nights, we checked into the St. Regis Cairo, and honestly—this hotel is a destination in itself.

Perched along the Nile, the St. Regis combines modern luxury with subtle Egyptian design elements. The service was flawless, the facilities expansive, and the food exceptional. From beautifully curated restaurants to elegant bars and serene common spaces, there was more than enough to keep us happily occupied without ever stepping outside.

We didn’t leave the hotel once—and we didn’t need to. These two days were about slowing down, indulging, and preparing for the adventure that lay ahead.

Day 5: The Journey Begins – Trafalgar’s Wonders of Ancient Egypt

From here on out, we joined Trafalgar’s Wonders of Ancient Egypt tour—a beautifully organized, thoughtfully paced itinerary that allowed us to experience Egypt’s greatest sites without feeling rushed.

We checked into the Hilton Ramses to kick off the tour, and from the start, everything ran like clockwork. Our guide, Tarek, was exceptional—knowledgeable, engaging, and genuinely passionate about Egyptian history. His ability to weave stories, context, and humor into each site made the experience infinitely richer.

Day 6: Memphis, Saqqara, Carpet Making & Giza

Our first full touring day took us deep into Egypt’s ancient past.

First Stop—Giza. The Great Pyramids and the Sphinx need no introduction. Standing before them is humbling in a way photos simply can’t capture. They are massive, precise, and impossibly old.

Memphis, once the capital of ancient Egypt, offered a glimpse into the earliest days of Egyptian civilization.

Saqqara, home to the Step Pyramid of Djoser, showcased the evolution of pyramid construction and remains one of the most important archaeological sites in the country.

We also visited the Akhnaton Carpet School, where men, women, and children are taught the intricate art of carpet weaving on traditional looms.

That night, we returned to Cairo with full minds and tired feet.

Day 7–8: Cairo to Luxor – Temples, Valley of the Kings & the Nile

A morning flight brought us to Luxor, often described as the world’s greatest open-air museum. We visited Karnak Temple, a vast complex of towering columns, sacred lakes, and intricately carved reliefs that tell stories spanning centuries.

Later that day, we boarded the MS Medea, our Nile cruise ship—and wow. Newly renovated, beautifully designed, and impeccably maintained, the ship felt both elegant and comfortable. The staff was outstanding, and it quickly became our floating home for the next several days.

Days 9–15: Sailing the Nile

As we sailed south, each day brought new wonders:

  • The Valley of the Kings, burial place of Egypt’s most powerful pharaohs and home to King Tutankhamun’s tomb. Considering our guide’s insights, we skipped entering King Tut’s tomb, as it is one of the smallest and most crowded in the valley. His treasures, however, would later be seen at the Grand Egyptian Museum.
  • Edfu Temple, dedicated to Horus, one of the best-preserved temples in Egypt, featuring massive pylons and remarkably detailed carvings.
  • Kom Ombo, uniquely dedicated to two gods, offering insight into ancient medicine and dual worship.
  • In Aswan, we visited the High Dam, the Unfinished Obelisk, and the stunning Philae Temple, relocated stone by stone to save it from flooding.
  • Luxor Temple and the Colossi of Memnon, standing watch over the west bank of Luxor.
  • The dramatic Temple of Queen Hatshepsut, carved directly into the cliffs.
  • And on our final day along the Nile, a visit to Dendera Temple of Hathor—probably our favorite temple of the entire journey—before flying back to Cairo.

Each site added another layer to Egypt’s story—religion, power, science, and daily life all carved into stone.

Day 16: Cairo’s Historic Heart

Our last full day explored Cairo’s layered history:

  • First up- the Grand Egyptian Museum, a modern, world-class space housing some of the most important artifacts ever discovered.
  • The Hanging Church, highlighting Egypt’s deep Christian roots
  • And lastly, the Citadel of Salah El Din and the Alabaster Mosque, offering sweeping views and architectural grandeur.

It was the perfect way to close out our time in Egypt—ancient history presented through a modern lens.

Final Thoughts

Egypt is not a passive destination. It demands your attention, challenges your senses, and rewards curiosity. From deserts and temples to luxury hotels and river cruises, this journey was perfectly balanced between adventure, history, and indulgence.

Having a guide like Tarek, a beautiful ship like the MS Medea, and the ease of the Trafalgar itinerary made the experience seamless.

This wasn’t just a trip—it was a walk through time.

11 Hours to Departure

In just 11 short hours, we’ll be boarding a flight to Southeast Asia, beginning our next chapter in Thailand. Egypt has left us in awe—its history, its scale, and its soul—but the journey is far from over.

We’re incredibly excited for what lies ahead. We hope you’ll follow along…

A Brief Note for Future Travelers

While our time in Egypt was extraordinary and deeply meaningful, experiencing a place so different from home also comes with a period of cultural adjustment. The observations below are shared simply to help set expectations for future travelers, not as criticism, but as honest reflections on aspects of daily life that may feel challenging at times.

Traffic & Transportation
Traffic in Cairo, in particular, is intense and often chaotic. There are very few traffic signals, and movement feels more like a constant negotiation than an organized system. Pedestrians, vehicles, and even animals frequently share the same space, and the near-constant use of car horns can feel overwhelming—especially for visitors not accustomed to this style of driving.

Air Quality
Air pollution was another noticeable challenge. Even from the 27th floor of our hotel, visibility was limited due to smog. With a metropolitan population of roughly 25 million people, this is understandable to a degree, though it did impact our overall comfort during our stay.

Litter & Environmental Concerns
We were surprised by the amount of litter in both urban and rural areas, including locations of historical and natural significance. While this is certainly a complex issue influenced by infrastructure and governance, it was difficult to see such remarkable and sacred landscapes affected in this way. One moment that stood out was witnessing litter discarded within a protected desert area, which was disheartening.

Hilton Ramses Hotel Experience
The Hilton Ramses, where we stayed at the beginning and end of our tour, was not our favorite accommodation. The lobby was often hectic, and service levels were inconsistent—some staff members were helpful and welcoming, while others were less so. Compared to other hotels on our journey, it fell short of expectations.

Vendor Interactions at Tourist Sites
At several major sites and temples, interactions with vendors were more aggressive than we anticipated. Persistent sales tactics—such as following visitors closely, placing items directly in front of them, or initiating unwanted physical contact—made some visits uncomfortable. Tipping culture is deeply ingrained, and at times it felt difficult to navigate boundaries, particularly when services were offered without being requested.

None of these challenges overshadowed the significance of what we experienced in Egypt. They simply reminded us that travel is as much about perspective and patience as it is about discovery—and that understanding a place often means embracing both its beauty and its complexities.

The Final Days at JW Marriott Masai Mara: Magic, Meaning, and a Perfect Goodbye

With Esther and Eric heading back to San Francisco, the rest of our time at the JW Marriott Masai Mara took on a quieter, more intimate rhythm. Suddenly, it was just the two of us on game drives — which felt like having a private safari experience without the private-safari price tag. And what an unforgettable stretch of days it turned out to be.

Intimate Game Drives & Unforgettable Sightings

Over our final drives, we encountered even more of the Mara’s remarkable wildlife: curious mongooses darting through the grass, large troops of baboons, massive crocodiles lurking along the riverbanks, and countless bird species with colors and calls that never seemed to repeat.

One afternoon, we followed a cheetah for nearly an hour as he stalked potential prey across the savanna. It was fascinating — and surprisingly emotional — to watch him ultimately fail to secure a meal. Nature doesn’t guarantee success, even for the fastest land animal on Earth.

Another rare and unexpected sighting was a serval, a beautifully patterned wild cat that even our guide was surprised to see. Our excitement may have gotten the best of us — we ended up stuck in the mud while trying to follow him. Thankfully, another safari vehicle came to our rescue, and the adventure continued.

Afterward, our guide took us down to the river, where he served us lunch as we watched families of hippos swimming, playing, and making incredibly loud noises just feet away. During the meal, we also spotted two enormous crocodiles resting nearby — a thrilling reminder that in the Mara, you’re never just “having lunch.”

One evening on our way back to the tent, we encountered a playful family of monkeys, including several babies tumbling through the trees. Moments like these happened often — unscheduled, unscripted, and absolutely magical.

Witnessing One of Nature’s Most Intimate Rituals

One of the most extraordinary moments of our entire safari was witnessing lions mating. We learned that the mating ritual can last up to seven days, with lions mating every 15–20 minutes to increase the chances of success.

The actual act itself was brief but captivating. The lioness approached the male when she was ready, allowed the moment to happen (about 12 seconds), followed by a quick bite at her neck, a short rest side by side, and then — she calmly walked away. Moments later, he followed her to the next location to repeat the process.

Casey captured an incredible video of the moment, and you can hear him whispering, “Oh my God, it’s happening.” It makes for a good laugh. Enjoy it for yourself here: https://photos.google.com/share/AF1QipPJmsZVvs7hv4wBEGlfbNrp9s06eZ7c7o46NIAoc0pyG4G7u490lLpbwvsYMo9ibQkey=cTk1UmhsOU5PUFRKR20tT3dBWV9KWWhyY0JGaWN3

The Thrill of the Chase: Leopard & Rhino Sightings

We also followed a highly anticipated leopard “sighting,” though we never actually saw the leopard itself. Leopards are famously elusive, often hiding high in trees and blending seamlessly into their surroundings. Still, the thrill of the chase was exhilarating — especially with nearly a dozen vehicles involved. Leopard sightings are rare, and guides communicate with one another to give guests the best chance possible. Their teamwork and generosity were genuinely heartwarming.

A similar scene unfolded during a black rhino sighting. Vehicles rushed to the location, and we were rewarded with brief but powerful glimpses of this majestic animal as it moved cautiously from bush to bush. While I had hoped to see it more clearly, I felt incredibly grateful just to witness such a rare and endangered creature in the wild.

A Meal We’ll Never Forget: Kenyan Cuisine Night

The second half of our safari included our favorite meal of the entire stay — a Kenyan cuisine night served family-style. The spread was incredible:

  • A rich, comforting broth
  • Thyme-marinated char-grilled chicken
  • Kenyan beef stew
  • Thyme and garlic-marinated seabass
  • Githeri (a hearty bean dish that became Casey’s absolute favorite)
  • Matoke (plantains)

Sides included kachumbari salad, sautéed spinach and kale, garlic-tossed carrot and cabbage, chapatti, and ugali. For dessert, we enjoyed Kaimati, a beloved Kenyan delicacy.

The flavors were bold, aromatic, and reminded us strongly of Indian cuisine. Curious, we did some research and learned that this influence stems from the Indian diaspora in Kenya, which grew significantly during British colonial rule when Indian laborers were brought in to help build railways and infrastructure. Over generations, Indian spices, techniques, and flavors blended beautifully with traditional Kenyan cuisine — a culinary collaboration rooted in shared history.

Every bite was unforgettable. We ate far more than we needed to, and we have absolutely no regrets.

A Gentle Final Day in the Mara

On our final full day, I wasn’t feeling well and stayed in our tent most of the day, coming out only for a light lunch. As it turns out, dehydration was the culprit. After drinking plenty of water and resting, I felt well enough to go on our final evening game drive — and I’m so glad I did.

That drive was pure bliss. Our guide took us to a stunning vantage point overlooking the Masai Mara, which spans roughly 580 square miles of protected wilderness — larger than many major cities. From that viewpoint, we watched the sun set in spectacular fashion. The sky exploded with deep shades of orange, and I was able to capture the moment with the silhouette of five trees in the foreground.

It was the perfect, poetic ending to our safari.

That evening, the night sky was just as breathtaking — an abundance of twinkling stars and visible planets, with even a faint nebula glowing overhead. It felt like the universe itself was putting on a final show just for us.

Saying Goodbye to Something Truly Special

On our final morning, we packed up, thanked the staff for their extraordinary hospitality, enjoyed lunch and a few drinks, and received our professionally edited photos from the Canon lab.

👉 Here is a link to the 144 edited photos:
https://photos.google.com/share/AF1QipONW7U3pNeVVBGvY6m3W35F0YrSMaRPYAuMdCD9FYo_E-rKpx6qJz6qSO4RkSPs6Q?key=U3pQX09MQ3B6UEJESUhuVlNXdTd0MXZBMF9YV1hB

In total, I took over 3,000 photos in five days — with many more still waiting to be edited. These, however, are some of the very best.

After lunch and heartfelt goodbyes, Jacob drove us to the airstrip, where we purchased a few souvenirs from members of the Maasai tribe. When our tiny plane arrived and we boarded, the reality of our safari coming to an end truly sank in.

For both of us, this has been one of the most magical journeys we have ever experienced. From the lodge and the staff to the wildlife and landscapes — and above all, Mother Nature — we couldn’t have asked for more. We saw everything we had hoped to see, and so much more.

From the Mara Back to the Chaos of Nairobi

Our flight back to Nairobi was… intense. The turbulence on those tiny planes is no joke. While I had several moments where I thought I might be sick, I managed to hold it together. Across the aisle, I could tell Casey was doing everything possible not to have a full-blown panic attack.

Forty minutes later, we landed safely.

The drive to the hotel, however, may have been even scarier than the flight. Our driver was aggressive — more so than the one I wrote about in Montenegro, and far more than drivers we’ve encountered in Mexico or Italy. At almost the exact same moment, Casey and I texted each other:

Him: I think I’d rather be back on that plane than in this car.
Me: This is scarier than the plane ride.

Security around the airport was tight and very different from what we’re used to. Near the airport, we exited the Uber and walked through a security checkpoint while police searched the vehicle. The process was quick and painless — just unfamiliar. But safety always comes first.

Our hotel stay was brief. We arrived around 5 p.m., had a drink at the bar, repacked, and tried to rest. Our flight to Cairo was scheduled for 4:20 a.m., requiring us to arrive three hours early for extensive screening.

Just as we finished multiple bag checks and reached the counter, we were informed that the flight was delayed by 2.5 hours — a frustrating loss of sleep, but very much a part of the nomad life.

Now, we’re sitting in the Nairobi airport lounge, coffee in hand, snacks nearby, as I finish writing this post. In just a few hours, we’ll be on our way to Cairo to begin the next chapter of our journey: Egypt.

A Final Reflection

Eight months into our adventure around the world, we feel more alive and grateful than ever. The world is breathtaking — not just because of its landscapes, but because of its people.

Every new place, every shared story, every unexpected connection shapes us, softens us, and makes us better humans. Despite everything happening in the world, beauty is still everywhere — in wild places, in shared meals, in quiet sunsets, and in the kindness of strangers.

Never stop looking for it.

In the Middle of the Magic: Kenya, the Mara, and the Wildest Dreams We Never Knew We Had

We are officially in the thick of our safari adventure, and it somehow already feels impossible that this is real life.

From Atlanta to Africa

Our journey began on January 6th as we left Atlanta, bound for Kenya. Two days, two continents, and two major stopovers later — Frankfurt and Istanbul — we finally touched down in Nairobi. By the time we arrived at our hotel around 5:00 a.m., exhaustion had completely taken over. We did what felt most appropriate: slept. For 16 straight hours.

Once we rejoined the land of the living, our one true adventure in Nairobi took us to Karura Forest, an urban oasis just a few miles north of the city center. Covering more than 2,500 acres, Karura Forest is one of the largest gazetted urban forests in the world and plays a vital role in Nairobi’s ecosystem — improving air quality, preserving biodiversity, and offering residents a rare connection to nature within a bustling capital city.

The forest is home to monkeys, bushbucks, reptiles, butterflies, and more than 200 species of birds. We encountered several monkeys along the trails, countless birds, and an incredible variety of plant and tree species. What surprised us most during our 7-mile hike were the pine trees — towering, abundant, and completely unexpected. We also explored waterfalls and caves, each turn revealing something new. Karura felt peaceful, alive, and deeply important to the city that surrounds it.

Our final day in Nairobi was spent preparing for what came next: safari. We would be flying in a 10-person plane, with a strict luggage limit of just 33 pounds per person. Every ounce mattered.

The flight to the Masai Mara was bumpy — and, if we’re being honest, a little terrifying (especially for Casey). But the views quickly became a distraction. From the air, we spotted herds of buffalo, elephants, and animals we couldn’t quite identify from that height. At our first landing strip, we were greeted by a herd of giraffes — including one standing directly on the runway, seemingly just as curious about us as we were about it.

After one stop and about 60 minutes of total flight time, we landed at our final airstrip where our driver welcomed us alongside our two game-drive companions visiting from San Francisco, Esther and Eric. Champagne was poured, snacks appeared, and just like that, safari had begun.

A Dream Called the JW Marriott Masai Mara

Our drive to our home for the next five nights — JW Marriott Masai Mara Lodge — doubled as our first game drive. Even though this is considered the “low season,” the Mara did not hold back. Along the way we encountered hyenas, water buffalo, elephants (including babies), topis, warthogs, giraffes, gazelles, zebras, and — waiting just outside the lodge — hippopotamuses.

The lodge itself sits along the Talek River, deep within the Masai Mara, offering unobstructed views into wildlife territory. It’s one of the most exclusive safari lodges in Kenya, blending ultra-luxury with thoughtful sustainability and deep respect for the surrounding Masai community.

Upon arrival, members of the Masai community greeted us with a traditional dance — and at their insistence, I joined in. From there, our host escorted us across the suspension bridge into the lodge. As staff lined up to welcome us, I felt tears welling up. The day had already been magical, and the weight of gratitude hit me all at once. This was real. We were here.

If I had to describe the arrival vibe in one sentence: it felt like we were stepping into Season 4 of The White Lotus — safari edition.

Our Sunrise Suite is absolutely stunning. The tented suite blends luxury and nature seamlessly, featuring floor-to-ceiling views of the river, a private terrace, elegant furnishings, a massive bed, and a bathroom that feels like a spa. You can watch wildlife pass by without ever leaving your room.

That evening, we enjoyed an incredible dinner followed by a bonfire with a Masai warrior while watching hippos emerge from the river to feed. Every expectation we had was exceeded. Every detail is intentional. Everything is executed flawlessly.

Because wildlife freely roams the property, guests are escorted between 6:00 p.m. and 6:00 a.m. by Masai warriors — hyenas, baboons, and hippos are very real nighttime neighbors. As we were guided back to our tent, we could hear hippos grunting and hyenas calling in the distance. Strange sounds, yes — but oddly comforting, like nature’s lullaby.

Lions, Rhinos, and the Circle of Life

Our first official game drive began at 6:00 a.m., just in time to catch an unforgettable sunrise over the Mara. Our driver, Jacob, was phenomenal — expertly spotting wildlife and answering our endless questions about habits, diets, and social structures.

We saw gazelles, topis, water buffalo, giraffes, hyenas, monkeys, lions, and an entire pride of lionesses. The highlight was watching the lionesses attempt a hunt. Female lions hunt cooperatively — moving slowly, staying low, spreading out to surround their prey, and communicating through subtle cues. Watching them stalk a warthog was thrilling… and while part of us was in awe of their precision, we were also relieved when the warthog escaped all five predators.

Most of my photos were taken using a high-end Canon camera provided by the lodge. At the end of our stay, the photography team will help edit our top shots and send us home with an SD card of everything.
Day 1 photo count: 523.

Our second drive delivered something even rarer — a black rhino. There are only about 44 rhinos remaining between the Masai Mara and the Serengeti, largely due to decades of poaching driven by the illegal horn trade. Seeing one is special even for the people who live and work here. When Jacob got the call, we raced across the Mara alongside other vehicles. The adrenaline was real.

That evening ended with a cocktail bonfire in the open savanna, Masai warriors sharing stories of their culture — including marriage traditions (live and let live!). Dinner followed, featuring vegetables grown largely onsite — tomatoes, cucumbers, peppers, and herbs so fresh they practically ruined grocery stores forever. On our walk back, we spotted bushbabies — adorable, until a flashlight hits them and their massive eyes stare back at you.

Balloons, Cheetahs, and a Core Memory for Life

Day three started at 4:00 a.m. for our hot air balloon ride. It was the earliest morning of any vacation I’ve ever taken — and completely worth it.

Because of the wind, the basket was on its side for boarding. We climbed in and lay down until the balloon inflated. About 15 feet up, we were told to stand. And then… silence. Peace. Magic.

The captain explained he could only control altitude — not direction or speed. We floated wherever the wind carried us, watching the sun rise over the Mara. From above we spotted giraffes, hippos, ostriches, and even a leopard.

After landing, we enjoyed a bush breakfast complete with bottomless champagne and great conversation before heading back out on another game drive. Wildlife never becomes monotonous — every encounter is different.

When we heard a cheetah had been spotted, we rushed over. The first cheetah wasn’t interested in posing — just teasing us from the shade. But shortly after leaving, we received another call. A second cheetah. On our way back to the lodge.

What happened next may be the highlight of our entire safari.

We arrived just after she had completed a successful hunt of a gazelle. For 90 minutes, we watched the oldest female cheetah in the reserve eat, while vultures — three different species — gathered nearby, waiting. Her stomach visibly grew as she fed. She avoided the stomach to prevent attracting hyenas… but hyenas can smell blood from nearly two kilometers away.

Eventually, a lone hyena appeared. The cheetah finished her meal and walked away. Instantly, the vultures swarmed — aggressive, chaotic, relentless — until the hyena charged in, scattering them and stealing what remained.

In an hour and a half, we witnessed the full circle of life.

I took over 1,000 photos during that time alone.


Just two and a half days into safari, we’ve already seen everything we hoped for — and so much more. In many ways, this experience reminds us of the Galápagos: wildly different, yet strikingly similar in the sheer abundance of life. It feels like stepping into a real-life episode of Planet Earth.

Tonight, heavy rain kept us in — a perfect excuse for a late lunch, photo editing, and writing this post. Dinner awaits, and tonight’s feature is Indian cuisine (one of our favorites).

Tomorrow, we head out again with no expectations — just gratitude, curiosity, and the joy of soaking it all in.

I can’t wait to share more photos with you soon. For now, I hope you enjoy what we’ve captured on our phones — and thank you for being part of this journey with us.

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From Europe to the Caribbean: Family, Food, Theme Parks, and Finding Rest Before Our Next Big Adventure

It’s been quite some time since my last post — life has been a whirlwind since we left Norway, and the past several weeks have been packed with family time, food worth traveling for, unexpected turns, and a whole lot of sunshine. As I write this from the Curaçao Airport lounge, headed back to the States for a brief holiday visit, I wanted to finally sit down and share everything we’ve been up to.

Halloween at Home: Mermaidman, Barnacle Boy, and Family Laughter

After returning from Europe, our first stop was North Carolina, where we celebrated Halloween with the family. Casey and I channeled our inner childhood heroes and dressed as Mermaidman and Barnacle Boy — and honestly, we nailed it.

We spent the evening at Jennifer and Jason’s house, playing games, sharing drinks, laughing until our sides hurt, and catching up on life. After months of constant travel, it felt grounding to be surrounded by familiar faces. Home really does reset the soul.

Savannah → Flagler Beach → Orlando: A Road Trip Full of Food, Friends & New Worlds

From NC, we hit the road for a multi-stop southern road trip.

Savannah: A Culinary Revelation at Common Thread

We stayed one night in Savannah and dined at what is now officially one of our favorite restaurants in the city: Common Thread
🔗 https://www.commonthreadsavannah.com/

Casey started with oysters he insists were the best he’s ever had, while I went with a bright, perfectly balanced ceviche. The surprise standout? A butternut squash second course recommended by our server — unbelievably scrumptious and the perfect hint of fall. Our mains (pork for Casey and fish for me) were excellent, but dessert stole the show: a deconstructed s’mores masterpiece. Drinks? Also perfection.

If you’re visiting Savannah, this is a 10/10 recommendation.

Flagler Beach: Friends Who Feel Like Home

Next, we made a quick stop in Flagler Beach, our former home, staying with our dear friends Matt and John. Dinner with them and our friend Lee was filled with storytelling and laughter. Their pups, Lucille and Jefferson, were as adorable as ever. These quick reunions always fill my cup.

Epic Universe in Orlando: Immersive Magic Meets… Lots of Screens

From Flagler Beach, we continued to Orlando for a much-anticipated visit to Epic Universe, Universal’s brand-new theme park that opened just weeks after we moved away.

The lands are stunning. Universal outdid themselves with:

  • The Wizarding World – Ministry of Magic
  • Super Nintendo World
  • How to Train Your Dragon – Isle of Berk
  • Dark Universe (Universal Monsters Land)

Each world was immersive and incredibly detailed. We loved exploring them — though we both wished the park offered more true thrill rides. Universal, like many parks now, leans heavily toward screen-based attractions.

The highlights:

  • ⭐ Stardust Racers — easily the best ride of the park. High-speed, thrilling, and just pure joy.
  • 🐺 Curse of the Werewolf — short but exciting.
  • 🪄 Ministry of Magic Queue — breathtaking. Universal absolutely nailed the atmosphere.

After a quick but magical visit, it was time to head to Miami for something we’d been excited about for months…

Virgin Voyages: Celebrating Dustyn on the Brand-New Brilliant Lady

We boarded the Brilliant Lady, Virgin Voyages’ newest ship, to celebrate Dustyn’s birthday — and wow, what an experience.

🔗 https://www.virginvoyages.com/brilliant-lady

Why Virgin Voyages Is Different

  • Adults only — which creates a completely different energy onboard
  • Incredible food (no main dining hall, no buffets — all restaurant-quality venues)
  • Elevated entertainment
  • Gorgeous design and social spaces
  • Inaugural-season sparkle: the ship was pristine, modern, and stylish from bow to stern

Some standout restaurants onboard:

  • The Test Kitchen — experimental, elevated, and delicious
  • Razzle Dazzle — playful, modern, beautifully balanced dishes
  • Gunbae — the only Korean BBQ at sea (and a drinking game or two…)
  • Extra Virgin — handmade pasta heaven

Hurricane Reroute, Snorkeling in Grand Cayman, and Duty-Free Finds

Due to a recent hurricane, Jamaica was canceled and we were rerouted to Cozumel, which we skipped since we’ve been many times.

But we definitely got off the ship in Grand Cayman, where we went snorkeling in some of the clearest, brightest, most vibrant water imaginable. Afterward, we did a little shopping — Casey picked up sunglasses and earrings, and I scored a new watch thanks to duty-free pricing.

We also stayed onboard during the Bimini stop and basically had the pool deck to ourselves. Bliss.

Of course, the best part was spending quality time with Dustyn, Brittney, and their partners, Nick and Patrick.


A Beachfront Reset in Melbourne, FL

After the cruise, we retreated to a beachfront hotel in Melbourne, where we mostly lounged, caught up on laundry, walked the beach, and treated ourselves to massages.

A cold front moved in, so we didn’t get as much beach time as planned, but honestly, the slower pace was exactly what our bodies needed after the indulgence of the Brilliant Lady.

Atlanta for Thanksgiving: Opera, Football, Grief, Healing & Family Traditions

Our next stop was Atlanta, where we stayed for over two weeks — a mix of celebration, unexpected loss, family bonding, and holiday traditions.

La Traviata, Kennesaw Mountain & Falcons Football

We kicked things off with tickets to La Traviata at The Atlanta Opera, thanks to our friend Matt (creative director), and were surprised by how much we loved our first opera experience.

We also:

  • hiked nearly 7 miles at Kennesaw Mountain
  • attended a Falcons vs. Panthers game (my first Atlanta game in 25+ years)
  • laughed our faces off at the Jinkx & DeLa Holiday Show
  • attended an early screening of Wicked: For Good

While the movie didn’t quite hit the magical bar we’d hoped for, the company was phenomenal — Lucas, Daniel, Angel, Mary Kate, and my sister.

A Sudden and Devastating Loss

What began as a lighthearted trip took a heartbreaking turn.

Late one night, my mom called sobbing. She had found my great aunt Sherry unresponsive at her kitchen table. It was sudden, unexpected, and deeply painful — especially for my mom and granny, who were incredibly close to her.

The days that followed were filled with grief, support, reflection, and celebrating Aunt Sherry’s life. She was laid to rest beside her mother, just two days before Thanksgiving.

Thanksgiving, Healing, and Family Moments That Matter

Thanksgiving itself was beautiful — full of incredible food, nostalgic photos shared by my Aunt Sharon, and moments of reconnection, including an important step toward mending the relationship with my brother.

We also enjoyed:

  • Drag Bingo
  • A night of arcade chaos at Dave & Buster’s
  • Dining out with a variety of of friends
  • Game night with Stephanie, Robert, and the girls
  • Plenty of quality time with mom, her cat Taz, Granny, and extended family

One thing I’ve always cherished: the unique bond my dad’s family maintains with my granny, even without blood ties. It’s one of the most meaningful dynamics in my life, and I’m endlessly grateful for it.

Curaçao: Caribbean Blues, Dutch Charm & A Much-Needed Reset

After the emotional weight of Atlanta, Casey and I flew to Curaçao for 10 days of warmth, rest, and Dutch-Caribbean charm.

Willemstad: Colorful, Historic & Full of Energy

We stayed first in an Airbnb near Willemstad — the island’s vibrant capital.
Think pastel Dutch architecture, floating bridges, waterfront promenades, and a multicultural food scene rooted in Afro-Caribbean, Dutch, and Latin influences. My only complaint: In most places, nothing can be flushed in the toilets. Nothing. Not even toilet paper. But, what are you going to do? Adapt. Overcome. Get over yourself!

Beachfront Bliss at the Curacao Marriott Beach Resort

Then we checked into the Curaçao Marriott Beach Resort:
🔗 https://www.marriott.com/en-us/hotels/curpb-curacao-marriott-beach-resort/overview/

Highlights:

  • a private white-sand beach
  • pools overlooking turquoise water
  • nightly live music
  • warm ocean temps and unbelievably clear water

As travel writers who’ve seen our fair share of beaches, let me say this plainly:
The water in Curaçao is unreal — warm as bathwater, clear as glass, and shimmering in every shade of blue imaginable.

We intended to rent a car and explore, but relaxing at the resort felt perfect.

Dinner at Kome: Caribbean Cuisine, Perfected

On our last night, we walked 30 minutes to Kome — and I’m so glad we didn’t skip it.
🔗 https://www.komecuracao.com/

I ordered the best chicken and waffles I’ve ever had. Yes, in the Caribbean. And yes, they were absolute perfection.

After dinner, we wandered along the waterfront admiring the Christmas decorations — Curaçao takes the holidays seriously, thanks to its Dutch roots. The city was glowing.

We will absolutely return to this island — next time to explore more of its caves, beaches, ostrich farm, and outdoor adventures.

What’s Next: A Quick Holiday Stop & Then… Africa and Southeast Asia

As I finish this up from 7 miles high, we’re flying back to Atlanta for two nights before heading to North Carolina to spend Christmas with family.

We’re not ready for freezing temperatures after 10 days of tropical weather, but we are ready for one last holiday season with family before our biggest adventure yet:

On January 6th, we leave the U.S. for five months.

First stop: Africa.
Then: Southeast Asia.
We’ll return in June for a family cruise.

2025 has been full. Emotional. Beautiful. Chaotic. Transformative.
And 2026 is shaping up to be the biggest chapter yet.

Thanks for coming along for the ride. 🌍
More stories soon — I promise not to wait so long this time.